The Swindle

By Michael Knight

Sunday 8 March 2009

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When one person in the relationship decides it's over — it's over!

It can be simple if the parents can be mature, however all it takes is a hint of fear, power imbalance, greed, pain or immaturity by one, and you both, along with your children and extended family, have the potential of being hurled into a storm that can often be more devastating than a category 5 hurricane.

Basically, you can lose up to everything you materialistically own, people you love, your spirit and soul. You can become financially, physically and emotionally bankrupt for a very long time — sometimes forever.

What's worse, if not aware, prepared and careful, your whole family can end up a victim like the many other families before you, with the new beneficiaries of your health, wealth and assets being the following industries who will only be too willing to take them off your hands. If you don't believe me, go right ahead and take your chance!

The Beneficiaries

• Legal Industry
• Legal Aid
• Courts - Family and Local
• Police and security departments
• Banks
• Department of Human Services (Social Welfare Organisations)
• Child Support Agency (Collection and Debt Agency)
• Medical Sector - Doctors, Psychologists, Psychiatrists
• Pharmaceutical, Drug, Alcohol, Cigarette companies
• Centrelink (Social Security)
• Political Structure
• Media outlets
• Relationship and Welfare bodies

If some have been overlooked - please forward them so the list can be extended.

It's no wonder the politicians will never fix the Separation and Divorce problem, when clearly, it supplies at least half the economy, no matter what country or penal colony. So to all you people out there writing swags of letters to politicians, it's time to give it a rest, it's simply a waste of our trees.

If you don't want that to happen to your family, be smart and do whatever it takes to avoid the above. A family in breakdown is like a dead plant that decomposes and goes back into the soil. The above bodies and institutions, albeit having some good aspects to some people, some of the time, are generally set up to operate on separated family members in a negative way, like vultures that prey on a rotting carcass in the desert. If you are not scared — you should be!

One has to wonder whether having children is worth the human sacrifice and gamble. It's not surprising that many couples are opting out of having children at a young age, or at all.

It makes you wonder whose wish it is to destroy families like this, when it's predictable that a large percentage of families will suffer breakdown due to the heavy stresses placed upon them, from media overload, monetary and other anti-family systems combined with a lack of guidance and education to allow healthy, prosperous and successful living for all, not just a few. Is this too much to ask for?

More importantly who is looking for answers to help families in crises, rather than sending them to the wall, through living a life of often struggle, stress and servitude. This article is not written to demean or portray any who work in the above industries in a bad light. Rather have you wake up and smell the coffee. Stimulate your brain and mind into thinking and questioning your philosophy and work role, and whether it truly helps families. If you you decide it may not, what changes can you make, on a daily basis, however slight, that will help vulnerable family members stay clear of harms way.

Encouragement is given to all those who can make the paradigm shift to help families with difficulties, stay together in one form or another, by preventing a separation or divorce from ever proceeding into a family breakdown situation. Children simply do not deserve to have their family carved up with their life and future inheritance stolen by the wicked and greedy! It's that simple.

Take care with love, peace and kindness
Michael