Keeping Separated Families Together

By Michael Knight

Saturday 24 April 2010

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Keeping Separated families together is truly a phrase somewhat paradoxical in nature, however it is underpinned by a deep rooted philosophy and pragmatic approach that has lasted thousands of years and ultimately been proven to serve children, parents and communities alike.

Yes simply, it's about your safety and survival, well-being, growth and advancement — stemming from being a learnt and cultural thing, right down to your cells, DNA and a force that many aren't even aware of. There are many good things about family and there is no reason why these should discontinue for children post Separation.

In amongst safety, a sense of identity and belonging are indeed very important foundations for a mentally healthy child and soon to be adult, feeling all those vital bonds of love and connectedness to help them mature in the world of today. There are many benefits to keeping both parents around if they both truly want to keep providing for their children. Everyone has enormous value to contribute whatever these qualities maybe.

The solution is not to alienate a contributing parent but rather to work through what each parent can provide that is conducive to the children. Each conscientious parent will give their best at various times and that needs to be supported, not vilified. With some generosity of spirit, some focus on your beautiful kids, you can both make it work. Only committed and loving parents will truly have the short and long term interests of your children at heart. Life is too short to be in conflict.

Put your children first and make every effort to keep your family together.

Make it happen —

With love, kindness and peace
Michael