"Jesus said unto him, If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth." KJB Mark 9:23
Knowing and believing why you value another and why they value you is critical to loving each other for any real length of time and to any considerable depth.
To ascertain your values will take some time together, desire, patience and true honesty from being open and vulnerable, but well worth the journey.
Only when in balance are we at peace and feel complete. With the love of two people, the yin and yang of love flowing back and forth, does this also hold true.
The Yin You can value someone so much where the adoration turns into love. This outpouring of your love is great yet not always sustainable on its own.
The Yang The other side of the equation is the love you receive and feel from the one you're with.
For without the giving and receiving in a relationship the framework of love fails to exist or at best, an illusion permeates in the mind of one or both of you causing you to see what you simply want to see, not what actually is.
From the love of two willing participants can you ever be set truly free, as from the sacrifice of giving yourself to another unconditionally, can the revealing of who you truly are ever take place.
Love is free yet the most valuable thing on Earth. If you both truly seek to believe you are in love with each other, so shall it be.
With love, kindness and peace
Michael
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