Focus on What Makes Your Life Better (Download)

By Michael Knight

Wednesday 12 January 2011

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If you feel like an alien from another planet has come to get you, and times running out, what would you want to do?

If you had just 24hrs left to live on Earth, a week or even six months, is there something you really want to do more than anything else in the whole wide world, any unfinished business perhaps before that alien puts you in his spaceship and flies away?

Ponder that scenario for a minute, and feel those feelings...hmmm

Whether you are in the early stages post Separation, or have come out the end of the sausage machine all battered and bruised, emotionally and financially depleted shall we say, you may eventually want to focus on what makes your life better.

For what you focus on — you will become.

If you believe you have the answers to making your life better read no further, otherwise continue on, as your head may still be spinning from the onslaught you have been through. If still unable to see the forest for the trees, the following is offered to help you along.

What would get you really pumped up and excited that no one could hold you down or back?
Do you have a do or die mission inside of you, just waiting to pop out and spring into action?

Are you experiencing life in your head or in the real world? If not the latter, you must ask yourself why, for this answer maybe the key if you're feeling stuck or simply not feeling alive, doing what you want, when you want.

Or do you simply have no burning desire inside your belly to do a particular thing? Perhaps confused, scared and trapped in your mind...#$&!

Let's be clear, your life is the only one you have. It's an amazing gift, and it's up to you to start making it better today!

Let us now be honest, do you know how long you've really got left on the planet? Have you been given a goodbye date? I didn't think so. Hence 'carpe diem', seizing the day is the order of today. There are plenty of goodies in life so what are you waiting for? Do you not want them?

Ok, enough with all the questions to get your attention and hopefully your heart racing and excited, or not.

Perhaps a shot of the chemical adrenalin to make you become more eager with everything you do. After all, we are simply chemical beings. Yes spiritual beings, but with a human body that runs on electrical energy, impulses and chemicals that rush around your body maintaining it and of course giving you various feelings. In essence, it's these feelings that stimulate and motivate you to do something, or hold you back. Your thoughts and powers of reasoning are in there too, however your desires are intensified by the feelings you can associate with them.

In order for you to be a happy little camper in this human life-form you have chosen, the exercise for you now is to simply cast your eyes up and down the list of eleven sources below a few times to see what catches your eye. Chances are, the one that jumps out at you will be your main desire and need right now; a hunger that must be fulfilled.

For you to reach your full potential and make life the positive fun filled journey it can be, seek out the full range of sources below and adequate supply at that. You be the judge of whether this list is in order of priority or importance to you, or whether by looking at it you notice something missing.

11 things for you to focus on

1. NOURISHING FOOD/WATER
   
2. PHYSICAL/MENTAL HEALTH
   
3. SHELTER/WARMTH/COMFORT
   
4. PEACE/SECURITY
   
5. LOVE - SELF/PARTNER/CHILDREN/FAMILY
   
6. DEFINITE and POSITIVE PURPOSE/MEANING
   
7. DAILY ACTIVITIES YOU ENJOY
   
8. FUN
   
9. MONEY/ITEMS to TRADE
   
10. GROWTH/ADVANCEMENT
    
11. HELP & BETTER THE LIVES of OTHERS
    

Without going into all of the above categories specifically, as this will be homework left up to you, you can hopefully now see something you couldn't before. By working out what you truly desire and focusing on it now, with all your heart, your life will change and become better. Like it or not, you will become happier.

The added bonus of each of these areas is a bit like a double edged sword giving you an insight into a) what you are missing in your life, and b) as a guide and point of focus around what daily activities you wish to concentrate on.

For example, returning back to some form of work, to which you have found it extremely difficult to do since your Separation. Sometimes going back to what you know just doesn't cut the mustard anymore after an intense Separation, as more often than not, you have changed.

You may have changed a little or a lot! Either way, your experiences have possibly changed your outlook on life and what you truly value to be important. Things such as your time, health, type of work you are prepared to do, people you want to mix with and so on. It can even feel like you have been reborn.

Whatever is your story, one things for certain, you want a better life with all those things listed above. Anything short of that list may make you feel somehow cheated or unhappy with your life, so go get them before the alien gets you!

With love, kindness and peace
Michael