Men & Separation (Download)

By Michael Knight

Saturday 1 May 2010

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Are men dumb and stupid when it comes to Separation or just plain naive?

Is it mainly due to their behaviour or lack of income capacity that forces mothers to leave or kick out their beloved from the matrimonial home, or is there some other more important point than keeping a family together?

Is it mostly fathers that miss out on the kids, assets, power and a life after Separation?

Is it payback towards men and by who, or are men just made and programmed differently?

Perhaps most men don't care if they lose their children, assets, a percentage of their income each week or fortnight, maybe lose their job, career, identity, health and life.

Some form of justice may work over time but suicide is better, or so many men think to be rid of the pain, humiliation, loss of children and ability to father the way they wanted, and being an overall failure in so many ways.

Are men built for change, meant to raise children or to work the system, gaining at the expense of their counterpart wives?

Are men stuck between a rock and a hard place, between genetic programming and protecting their wives and children versus fighting against their wives and a third party for themselves and the rights of their children?

Where do men really stand? Are they being torn right down the middle and will this be the end of man as we know it?

Have we finally destroyed the man, the father and the protector of women and children? Will women be happy to fight their own battles against the onslaught of what enemies lay in the wings about to prey on them and their children?

Do mothers have the genetic makeup to fight these 'would be' intruders who are just standing by?

Are mothers really that secure, brave, strong and genetically fearless to fight off the beast and evil?

Do mothers really want to be without men and really alone? Is the choice for mothers really between the devil and the dark blue sea?

Some fathers are pathetic and fault ridden in so many ways however when it comes to feeling secure, a woman may just want the father of their children nearby wherever there is the threat of harm and danger, as only they will be truly ready to kill in an instant to protect mother and child.

So if this being a good case for security, why not is it enough to stay together?

Is it really about the loss of love for a man, the things he's done wrong, or not done?

Is the all important child far more important, with the father completely expendable with more viable financial propositions on the horizon, or is it just that some women like a change and trade in their used man?

Whatever the reason hundreds of families are falling apart daily with not just the father falling down, both mother and children are now learning decades later that the going ain't so easy having divided the family.

So perhaps mothers may want to rethink their actions too in this Separation mess and the damage they may cause to not just their husband, but themselves and of course their dear children.

Maybe mothers want to ask and think about whether there is a third player involved? For this third player, whoever and whatever it maybe, may just destroy your family and the only real thing that's on the planet, and gives you any true meaning to your soul.

God bless you all!

With love, kindness and peace
Michael