dying love is possibly the ultimate test of unconditional love on both the mortal and spiritual planes. With the ultimate sacrifice of yourself on the line for another will you be truly set free to soar with complete freedom.
Getting caught up in materialism and want, want, want and more want is a flaw in one's psyche causing disease; placing the mind and body under undue stress leading to ill health just for starters.
Firstly, from what I know or glean from the masters of wisdom there is no one authority on the subject of love, it's about as open to interpretation as is one's views on family, Separation, politics, religion and almost anything else for that matter. The following may or may not make sense to you if your heart is closed. It's perhaps an abstract piece, laced with experience and a knowing to help you contemplate and decipher the meaning of love for yourself.
Although you may have embarked on a path of romantic or companionate love, there is however another love that I have come to known and refer to that as being a dying love.
It's a deep deep love and while being mysterious, enchanting and euphoric love, it maybe hard to break free unscathed if things take a turn for the worst, if one person can't connect on the same level as you and/or the relationship folds.
A love of dying is a love worth trying, if with the right type of person. To see and fully be with another, that special person in your life, always thinking about them, caring for them, how they feel, knowing what they want and need and obliging in almost every way, including challenges can be a truly unique and revelationary experience. It's an unselfish type of love that can help transcend you far beyond where you are.
It's also an intimate, sensual and sexual love, a consensual love on any level, for what the mind pictures can be desired and acted upon. Where breathing each other in on a daily basis is what's needed and wanted by both, whilst to observers outside this circle a feeling of suffocation might be perceived.
On the contrary though, this is a love of freedom, openness and complete honesty. It is neither a controlling nor inhibiting love of any description that interferes with the well being of the other. Almost like twins sharing the same overlapping layers of genetic makeup, the couple who have a dying love may want and must be together forever, for without the dying love of the other, life can be both dismal and futile.
As each day passes while breathing the same air, they often think about the same things very often at the same time. Like a pair of well worn shoes being only slightly different to allow for balance and having almost the same beliefs and values, they know what they want and where they are going. What's more they have an abundance of love to give others, for they are but one fountain rooted deeply into the spring of love, showering this holy energy upon all who ye come into contact.
This type of relation may sound odd, unrealistic, unhealthy and perhaps unfamiliar to many, and for many, you maybe right. However, this is a special love, a rare love that finds and connects two people, not vice versa. It's not like ordering an expensive car, or lavishing someone with gifts and money. It can't be bought it just doesn't work that way.
The essence of this love seems to find it's roots in spirit, a love between two spiritual beings, and by spiritual I mean that of seeking a perfect wholeness that transcends any physical or man made thing or problem.
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